5 Simple Ways Entrepreneurs Can Crush Their Negative Thinking

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Do you feel like there’s a hovering dark cloud above your head, casting a shadow over your thoughts and making it hard to visualize your success?

Feeling like there’s the weight of the world on your shoulders as you move forward as an entrepreneur?

As an entrepreneur — the pressure to succeed can be overwhelming, and your negative thinking patterns can feel like hovering dark clouds, blocking out the sun and casting a shadow over your every move.

But here’s the thing — those negative thoughts are just that — thoughts.

You are not your thoughts.

Your thoughts don’t have to control you, and they don’t have to dictate the success or failure of your business.

By recognizing and overcoming these patterns, you can break free from the storm clouds and achieve your goals.

So let’s take a closer look at five common negative thinking patterns that hold entrepreneurs back from making decisions and discover how to break through the clouds and into the clear blue sky of success.

Imposter Syndrome — “Who Am I to Be Doing This?”

Have you ever felt like a fraud in your own business?

Like you don’t deserve to be where you are, and sooner or later, everyone will find out? Well, my friend, you’re not alone. This feeling of inadequacy is called imposter syndrome, and it’s one of the most common negative thinking patterns that entrepreneurs experience.

Ryssa had always dreamed of starting her own business, but every time she thought about taking the leap, she felt like a fraud. She didn’t have an MBA or years of experience in the industry, so who was she to think she could succeed? It wasn’t until she talked to other entrepreneurs and realized that many of them had the same fears that she was able to work to overcome her imposter syndrome and launch her business.

You might think that successful entrepreneurs never feel this way, but let me tell you, even the biggest names in business have battled imposter syndrome at some point.

To overcome imposter syndrome: First, recognize that your feelings of inadequacy are unfounded — and then work to change your self talk. Be an evidence detective. You got where you are because of your skills, hard work, and dedication. Celebrate your successes and don’t downplay your achievements. And finally, surround yourself with supportive people who will remind you of your worth.

Fear of Failure: “What If I Mess Up?”

As an entrepreneur, you’re constantly taking risks and making decisions that can make or break our businesses.

It’s no wonder that you sometimes feel the weight of the world on your shoulders. But if your fear of failure is holding you back from making decisions, it’s time to face it head-on.

Curtis had a great idea for a new product, but he was so afraid of failing that he spent months researching and refining it instead of actually launching it. He was convinced that if he didn’t get everything perfect, he would be a laughingstock. It wasn’t until he read about other successful entrepreneurs who had experienced multiple failures before finding success that he was able to overcome his fear and launch his product.

To overcome your fear of failure: Recognize that failure is not the end of the world. In fact, failure can be a valuable learning experience that can lead to greater success down the road. So, take calculated risks, and don’t be afraid to make mistakes. And remember, failure is not a reflection of your worth as an entrepreneur.

Perfectionism: “It Has to Be Perfect”

Do you find yourself obsessing over every little detail of your business?

Spending hours tweaking your website, designing the perfect logo, or crafting the perfect social media post? Well, my friend, you might be a perfectionist, and it’s holding you back from making decisions.

Perfectionism is the enemy of good.

Perfectionism can be a double-edged sword. On one hand, it can lead to high-quality work and attention to detail. But on the other hand, it can lead to analysis paralysis and procrastination.

Emily was a perfectionist, and she believed that every detail of her business had to be flawless. She spent hours tweaking her website, agonizing over every word of her marketing copy, and obsessing over the design of her product. As a result, she never launched her business because it was never “perfect” enough. It wasn’t until she realized that perfectionism was holding her back and that it was better to launch something good than to never launch at all that she was able to get her business off the ground.

To overcome being a perfectionist: Recognize that perfection is impossible, and striving for it will only hold you back and make you anxious. Instead, focus on making progress and getting things done, even if they’re not perfect. Learn to not spend time and energy in the space between your performance and perfectionism.

Analysis Paralysis: “I Need More Information”

As an entrepreneur, you’re bombarded with data and information from all angles. It can be overwhelming, and it’s easy to fall into the trap of analysis paralysis.

You might find yourself endlessly researching, analyzing, and weighing the pros and cons of every decision. But at some point, you need to make a decision and take action.

Samantha had been working on her new business idea for months, pouring her heart and soul into every detail. She had researched every possible angle, weighed every option, and analyzed every scenario until her head was spinning. She had a clear vision of what she wanted to achieve, but as the launch date approached, her confidence began to waver.

One day, Samantha found herself staring at her computer screen, paralyzed by indecision. She had been trying to choose between two website designs for hours, but every time she thought she had made a decision, she second-guessed herself and started over. She was so consumed by the fear of making the wrong choice that she couldn’t make any choice at all.

With renewed determination, Samantha finally made a choice and launched her business. It wasn’t perfect, but it was hers, and that was enough. She learned that sometimes, taking action and making a decision, even if it’s not perfect, is better than being stuck in analysis paralysis and never moving forward.

To overcome analysis paralysis: First, set clear goals and priorities for your business. This will help you stay focused on what’s most important and avoid getting bogged down in details. Next, limit your research and analysis to the most essential information. And finally, trust your instincts and make a decision. Remember, no decision is perfect, and you can always adjust course if needed.

Comparisonitis: “Everyone Else Is Doing It Better”

Do you find yourself constantly comparing your business to others? Feeling like you’re not measuring up, or that everyone else is doing it better? Well, my friend, you might have a case of comparisonitis.

Comparisonitis is a dangerous negative thinking pattern that can quickly spiral out of control. It can lead to feelings of inadequacy, self-doubt, and even depression.

Raphael was always comparing himself to other entrepreneurs and feeling like he was falling short. He spent hours scrolling through social media, envying the success of his peers and feeling like he would never measure up. It wasn’t until he realized that comparison was a losing game and that he had his own unique strengths and talents that he was able to focus on his own journey and start making progress towards his own goals.

To overcome comparisonitis: Recognize that comparison is the thief of joy. When you compare yourself to others, you’re only focusing on what they have that you don’t. Instead, focus on your own unique strengths and what makes your business special. And remember, everyone has their own journey, and success looks different for everyone.

Your negative thinking patterns can be a major roadblock to you making confident decisions. But by recognizing and overcoming these patterns, you can unlock your full potential and take your business to new heights.

So, the next time you find yourself stuck in a negative thought pattern, take a step back, and remind yourself that you are capable and worthy of success.

Remember, entrepreneurship is a journey full of ups and downs, but with the right mindset and a willingness to take risks, you can achieve your goals and build the business of your dreams.

Now go out there and make those decisions, and kick-ass — LFG!

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Marty Wolner | Healthy Anger Leadership
Marty Wolner | Healthy Anger Leadership

Written by Marty Wolner | Healthy Anger Leadership

I'm a Healthy Anger Leadership Coach, Author and TEDx host. I help high achievers master healthy anger as a powerful leadership tool.

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